tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-83296591099480272872024-03-12T21:05:29.954-04:00Perilously Close To Crazy (or survival after a childhood of lead paint, Pop Rocks & BB guns)Patti Hodderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16468686672215414798noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329659109948027287.post-35589230524057398832019-10-10T11:20:00.002-04:002019-10-10T16:33:42.232-04:00Retail Math & Other Career Lowlights Pt 1 Now that I'm on the back side of my career, it has made me think back to the highlights of my storied career, but the lowlights are way more interesting.<br />
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I was lucky in that I was pretty much sure of what I wanted to be when I grew up. I remember my inspiration was the movie "The Best Of Everything": a 1950s soap opera film that featured Hope Lange as a secretary in publishing, in NY City. Complete with white gloves, high heels, hats and office romances. Plus Joan Crawford...how could I resist?<br />
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Out of college I landed a sales assistant position with a southern lifestyle magazine. Back in those dark ages the fax machine occupied its own office and took about 20 minutes per page. <br />
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And no computers....no cellphones...I typed up sales reports on carbon paper, about 5 pages thick. (All you young uns can Google 'office work 100 years ago'). I loved everything about it. And talk about working in NYC? The offices were in the Chrysler Building......so glam.<br />
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I'm not sure how it happened but after a few years I landed a new job for a general aviation magazine. One of my fav responsibilities was working on the "Bachelor" of the month feature. Young, wealthy pilots. What wasn't there to enjoy??<br />
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Each summer the magazine produced the daily show newsletter for the EAA show in Oshkosh, Wisconsin. I had never traveled for business before so this was some experience. I would fly to Milwaukee, rent a car and drive to Oshkosh.<br />
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We rented a beautiful home from a nice couple and we all moved in. The only downside is that the couple were huge Badgers fans. I think University of Wisconsin? Badgers were everywhere......but looking at a 'GO Badgers' poster in the bathroom always caused me some performance anxiety.<br />
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The staff would sit in a trailer -- the reporters would head out to the show, gather the stories and then my job was to type up the stories. We would literally cut and paste the copy on to huge boards. I would then drive to the printers and the newsletter would appear by magic each morning. I could never imagine how we existed without technology, this is a lost art.<br />
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The only problem I encountered was when someone asked me to back out my car. If you know me, parking/backing up is not my strong suit. A winding, crowded driveway, lined with trees. The trees won. Just a little embarrassing......<br />
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On a very sad day for the world, I was at a tradeshow in Anaheim, CA the day the Challenger exploded. I will never forget watching Neil Armstrong and Chuck Yeager reacting and discussing this tragedy. It is one of the clearest memories I have. <br />
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I have no idea as to what possessed me to change industries....I wanted to get into the retail biz. Shockingly, I was hired to be an assistant handbag buyer at JC Penney. An office, accessories... what could possibly go wrong?<br />
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Day One....before I even take a sip of coffee my new boss called me into the office. "Yeah, well, I couldn't really say anything before, but the headquarters are moving to Plano, TX. Do you want to go? Well, actually you have to since that's where your job will be." Nothing against Plano but I didn't even know where the ladies room was yet. I politely declined and, I think to guard against a lawsuit, they allowed me to use all their equipment and resources to look for a new job.<br />
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Miraculously I actually found another job.....as a receptionist at a major American leather goods company. It was crazy but I adored it. My boss was very generous in giving me assignments to grow my job.<br />
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However it involved math. Yikes....but fake it til you make it, right? In hindsight the project was really basic math (but again before Excel). But it might have well been quantum physics. My deer in the headlights look when percentages were involved, clued my boss in to my ignorance. So he nicely says, "Patti, when you go into a department store and you see 'take 30% off ticketed price' signage how do you figure out the price"? Ah youth...ignorant child....I reply "well, I figure the cost will be less than the ticketed price so I'll be nicely surprised at the cashier". Good answer, right? <br />
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Wrong....but instead of firing my butt, my boss signed me up for retail math courses. I'm not sure if it stuck with me, I still make my friends figure out tips.<br />
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Then the company developed a new concept of shop-in-shops in Department Stores. I was promoted to be the manager of this program. They hired a designer that I would be working with....and all these days later.... is still one of my besties. He was tutoring me in interpreting floor plans One memorable afternoon he was showing me what the legends meant, how to measure with a scale ruler, etc.<br />
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I'm usually not stupid but you wouldn't have known it. I asked "oh, so that is an elevator by the area marked as 'iccug'? My co-worker was patient yet baffled. He turned the floor plan around. GUCCI....oh crap.<br />
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And then the booze cruise........you'll just have to wait for Part 2.<br />
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Patti Hodderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16468686672215414798noreply@blogger.com0New Hyde Park, NY, USA40.7351018 -73.68790819999998140.7110373 -73.72824869999998 40.759166300000004 -73.647567699999982tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329659109948027287.post-260100168084985822018-09-19T19:03:00.000-04:002018-09-19T19:03:07.675-04:00I THINK I INVENTED CARPOOL KARAOKE With all due respect to James Corden, I'm pretty sure I came up with carpool karaoke decades ago.<br />
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I was lucky to go on lots of summer family vacations. I seem to remember different station wagons, but the Gran Torino was the one I remember the most. I'm sure you can double check with my brother, but I had two really annoying habits on road trips.<br />
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One clear memory is my obsession with leaning over my father's shoulder and saying "do we have enough gas, is there enough gas, do we need gas?" over and over again.<br />
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My prowess in math is legendary (not at all) and he would try to explain we get 11 miles to the gallon, our tank holds 29 gallons, blah...blah...blah. My little brain would melt down, my eyes glazed over and I would sink back muttering "I hope we have enough gas". So you know that one time that there was a problem with the gas tank?<br />
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Yep, ran out of gas. I am pretty sure I started wailing in the back seat. And I'm also pretty sure I was like 16. Not pretty.<br />
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The other extremely annoying habit was being able to identify a song on the radio within the first 3 notes. My father would exclaim "how the heck do you know all these?" Just massive skill I guess.<br />
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I would yell out "I Got You Babe" or "King of The Road" and begin to sing along much to the consternation of the rest of the family. This amazing skill has continued to annoy those around me. My favorite utilization of this talent was when I would drive my son to school or on errands when he was younger. He was allowed to put in a CD (kids Google it)....mostly rap / hip hop stuff. Now, as we adults know...lots of this music had sampled bits. So I would love to break into Earth Wind & Fire's "SEPTEMBER" that was mixed into some DJ song. My son would roll his eyes...."how do you know THIS music too??? You are so annoying!" Yes, that I am, just ask your Uncle or Dad.<br />
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Now, some clarification. I knew the songs, would sing (and still do) at full voice. However, this does not mean I was correct with the lyrics all the time. Most of the time, but there have been some doozies:<br />
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<li><b>Bad Moon Rising by Creedence Clearwater Revival</b>: Correct lyric: "There's a bad moon on the rise". My version: "There's a bathroom on the right".</li>
<li><b>Blinded By The Light by Springsteen</b>: Correct lyric: "Blinded by the light. Revved up like a deuce another runner in the night". My version: "Blinded by the light. Revved up like a DOUCHE another runner in the night". I always got in trouble for that one.</li>
<li><b>Edge of Seventeen by Stevie Nicks:</b> Correct lyric: "White winged dove, sings a song." For years I was belting out "One winged dove, sings a song." Makes absolutely no sense.</li>
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And many more.....fortunately, this all happened in the good old days of not having everything filmed showing your ignorance for internet eternity.</div>
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But one classic tune that I thought for years I was singing right, my exposure as being full of s^%$ was captured on a funny episode of my friends' YouTube channel. <b><i>Spandex Nation unMasked</i></b>...check out their channel and here is the funny episode featuring my ignorance in all its glory. And some other jackasses too:</div>
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<br />Patti Hodderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16468686672215414798noreply@blogger.com1New Hyde Park, NY, USA40.7351018 -73.68790819999998140.7110373 -73.72824869999998 40.759166300000004 -73.647567699999982tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329659109948027287.post-19840541543056205772018-09-05T16:32:00.000-04:002018-09-05T16:32:31.935-04:00I THINK I'M A SLIDER! As Richard Gere says in <i><b>PRETTY WOMAN</b></i>, "I miss keys" as he kept shoving his hotel room card into the door over and over.<br />
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I can relate. I have always had issues with hotel key cards. So many times they just quit working for me. And there is nothing quite like this when it happened in Vegas, in particular the MGM Grand. The hallways are so long you have to pack a lunch to get from the elevator to your room (I also have an uncanny ability of scoring the room furthest away from elevator banks....I'm not kidding every time). So after a night out, I would finally get to the room only to have the card not work (and I would always get 2 and both would die). I would do the long walk back to the lobby to get new cards.<br />
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This is such a predictable situation that my husband won't even allow me to carry them when we go on vacation. I have tried not putting them in my wallet (the idea that the magnetic strip on credit cards sets them off), rubbing them against clothing to eliminate static cling. All to no avail. I started to be known as having toxic hands.<br />
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During a recent brunch with my Vegas buddy Gina we started this conversation over my ability to destroy electronic items with my bare hands. <br />
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In addition to the hotel key card situation I regaled her with just some recent activities (just this one visit to Vegas in particular):<br />
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<li>My central AC thermostat is flashing a message while I'm adjusting the temperature. The message doesn't even register when I google it. The AC tech said, "jeez, I've never seen that before"</li>
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<li>Day two coffee maker dies.</li>
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All this time I thought I was just your basic weirdo and klutz but it appears as if I can be classified as a "Slider". At last I belong! Some of Gina's research:</div>
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From Conscious Life News: "The Sliders phenomena is not limited to street lights only (oooh, that hasn't happened yet). Often these people can't wear watches as they stop working within a couple of days. They also affect other appliances such as headlights and alternators in vehicles, light bulbs and computers. Light bulbs may blow every time a "slider" touches a lamp or a switch. Computers may freeze, CD players change tracks suddenly whenever a slider is near. Sliders may be unable to use credit cards as they become unreadable and many times cause an irregular EKG". Check, check, check!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Patti Hodderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16468686672215414798noreply@blogger.com0New Hyde Park, NY, USA40.7351018 -73.68790819999998140.7110373 -73.72824869999998 40.759166300000004 -73.647567699999982tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329659109948027287.post-73013288360531127172018-08-31T16:24:00.000-04:002018-08-31T16:24:02.893-04:00THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE While watching the news coverage of the recent passing of Senator McCain, in particular his time spent as a POW, I kept getting a nagging thought in the back of my mind. I couldn't place it until it came to me last night.<br />
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I dug through a box in the basement and found an old jewelry box I kept as a young girl. In a pile of strange memorabilia, I found what had been bugging me. My POW bracelet from the 1970s.<br />
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My experience with the Vietnam War was watching news coverage and the fact that a friend of my family's lost their son over there. My recollection is that there was an ad in the back of a magazine and you could order a POW bracelet.<br />
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When I received my bracelet it was engraved with "Capt Ronald Packard, 7-31-67" and it came with the name and address of his wife. For quite a while we exchanged letters -- there were no computers, etc. -- so snail mail was the way to go. I remember stationery with daisies, my "I's" had hearts over them. His wife's name was Shari, she lived in Colorado, and we would write each other about mundane issues. As I think of it now, how hard must this have been for his wife? Her husband was MIA, possibly a POW and there she was corresponding to a little kid.<br />
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Here is a link about these bracelets from back in the day. <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/POW_bracelet">https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/POW_bracelet</a><br />
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Years past and whenever that day came that I put this bracelet in the box, I'm ashamed that it was forgotten for all this time.<br />
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Now that there is Google, I was able to find out more about Capt Packard. To connect a face and history with my long ago involvement brought tears to my eyes. As an adult, and the Mother of a USMC veteran, I am devastated that he went missing when he was only 25 years old. Only one year older than my son is now.<br />
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After finding his history, I learned that his remains were found and he was buried in 1997 at Arlington with full military honors. <a href="https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/14980366/ronald-lyle-packard">Captain Ronald L. Packard</a> memorial info.<br />
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Also through Google, I believe I found his widow and I have reached out to her to see if she or anyone in her family might like to have me mail the bracelet to them. Stay tuned! <br />
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RIP Captain Packard and know that long ago, a young girl, kept you in her prayers.<br />
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<br />Patti Hodderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16468686672215414798noreply@blogger.com0New Hyde Park, NY, USA40.7351018 -73.68790819999998140.7110373 -73.72824869999998 40.759166300000004 -73.647567699999982tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329659109948027287.post-79708178903790357342018-08-28T14:37:00.000-04:002018-08-28T14:38:11.345-04:00AT THE LAKE Now that Summer '18 is heading toward the record books, I have been reminiscing on some past vacations, some as an adult and some with my family when I was a kid. One vacation spot in particular comes to mind....at the lake.<br />
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Every other summer, my family rented a cabin on Long Lake, Maine. One of my most vivid memories of the cabin was the picture window that looked out over the lake. It was so large and clean that during the day it almost looked as if there was no window at all. You could only tell when the sun hit a certain way, letting the rays into the room; and dust particles would look like dancing fairies in the sun. We would watch the boats and especially the seaplanes which we would find fascinating.<br />
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At night, the silence was so overwhelming you could hear your own heartbeat in your ears. At night, while reading, we would rest our feet onto the glass and feel the cool night air on the soles of our feet. If we pressed our feet very hard, the chill seemed to travel up our legs. There were no lights on the lake. It was as if someone had shut every light of nature off. All we could see was our reflection in the glass.<br />
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The bedroom that my brother and I shared faced a screened-in porch. All throughout the night we could hear the insects buzzing up against the screen. They sounded so close, like the buzzing of the barber's razor when he is cutting close to your ears.<br />
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A wood dock rocked gently in the water; it was our lullaby. My brother and I would wrap ourselves in our blankets. They were pure white like new snow and as soft as sleeping wrapped in a cotton ball.<br />
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We would wake when our mother started making breakfast. We knew when Dad was awake because we could smell fresh coffee brewing. Dad would take his coffee out on the porch and blow gently on it as if he were blowing the fur off a dandelion. There was one spot on the floor that would always creak in a soothing rhythm. We could almost hum along with that sound. It sounded as if the porch was waking us up too. Good morning, good morning, it seemed to sing to us.<br />
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Every morning we would put on our bathing suits and head out to the lake. The suits always felt a little clammy, as if they were not completely dry from the day before. I would stick one foot in the lake and feel a chill all over. We were convinced that someone had planted ice cubes in the lake overnight. The water was as blue as our dungarees and was so thick you could not see your own feet. Our bodies eventually adapted to the cold, and we would swim out to the raft. We glided as if were were floating on top of the water.<br />
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I only remember one misadventure (because with me you know there is always going to be one). My brother was still pretty little and my dad offered to take me out in the canoe to go fishing.<br />
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He paddled out to the middle of the lake, and got my fishing pole ready. From cartoons I knew there was a hook and worm involved, but kind of freaked me out in real life. After some time, my dad caught something.<br />
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Unfortunately, the fish had swallowed the hook or something so my father had to try to do some surgery, in the canoe, on the open water. As every other non-athletic kid would react, I freaked out. I actually jumped out of the canoe and began to swim back toward the lake's edge. And I actually took one of the oars with me!<br />
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Needless to say.....my father is trying to frantically paddle with one oar and yelling at me to get back! My mom, in the meantime, on the shore, watching me swimming away while my dad was yelling. Fortunately I'm a strong swimmer but still! What the heck was I thinking???? I made it back, and I was very dramatic -- "there was blood everywhere! It was flopping all over the boat!!!" My mom was probably thinking: "what???? A leg, a finger? what???" "THE FISH" I wailed!!<br />
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I was brought into the cabin for some ginger ale and pretzels (usually reserved only for the stomach flu) while my poor Father struggled back.<br />
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My mom, trying to remain cheerful asked, "so are we having fish for dinner??"<br />
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"Hamburgers", was the only reply.<br />
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In spite of this, I will always remember our Maine vacations as special. Hopefully my dad would think the same thing!<br />
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<br />Patti Hodderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16468686672215414798noreply@blogger.com0New Hyde Park, NY, USA40.7351018 -73.68790819999998140.7110373 -73.72824869999998 40.759166300000004 -73.647567699999982tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329659109948027287.post-15264951504727260012018-07-24T17:56:00.000-04:002018-07-24T17:56:26.930-04:00The Story Behind #TodaysSunflower <br />
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Many times I have posted a photo of a sunflower with the #TodaysSunflower hash tag. Some of you may know the story behind these postings but for those of you who don't....here is the reason.<br />
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My father<b> HATED </b>sunflowers.<br />
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My son, when little, brought home a little sunflower plant from a sale at school. There is an adorable photo of him with the baby plant and then a photo of how beautiful it looked when it grew in my garden. It has hung on my parents' fridge for ever. "Gosh, I hate sunflowers. Cute photo but I hate those flowers," my father would explain.<br />
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When we first bought our home, we were so excited to have a garden of our home. My husband dug and planted and watered and our first garden was so beautiful to us. And yes, we had planted some sunflowers. "The garden looks great," said Dad, "but I'm not wild about the sunflowers".<br />
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Again in our new home we were excited to purchase some art for the bare walls. Nothing fancy, like prints from Michaels, but one print was of a very large sunflower. "The room looks great", again Dad said, "but I could do without the sunflower print".<br />
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Finally, I needed to try to find out. "Dad, what is your deal with sunflowers? I don't get it."<br />
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At the time my Dad said, "I can't explain it, they just don't sit well with me."<br />
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"But they are just a flower, it just doesn't make sense", I insisted.<br />
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"I honestly don't know, there is a reason I don't like them. That's it. No big deal", he explained.<br />
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Time went on and things got messy. My Dad passed away after battling an illness in the Summer of 2004. Obviously, it was rough on all of us. Most of that time is blurry. But there is one very distinctive memory.<br />
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At the cemetery I noticed that the plot behind my father's was covered in little sunflowers. Small plants, plastic ones. I guess his eternal neighbor really liked sunflowers. I said a little prayer to my father: "I'm so sorry you have to be around the one flower you hated. But I promise that whenever I see a sunflower, I will think and you and say hello".<br />
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For the year following my father's passing I wrote in a small journal. Almost every day I saw a sunflower and I would write it down. No one really knew about this. And it wasn't like I would pass by the same deli flower display in NYC -- every sighting was different. Someone might send me a card, there might have been a display in Macy's windows, a commercial on TV or someone's flower arrangement on their desk.<br />
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My first tattoo was of a sunflower....I choose it to honor my Dad, but in all honesty he would have HATED that I got a tattoo.<br />
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Could it be that he hated them so much because he somehow knew he would stuck by them forever? Almost 14 years later, the plot still has a sampling of sunflowers. Did he hate them so much that I would remember that at this tough time and have a touchstone to remember him by? Who knows.<br />
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So when you see a posting (and now many of my friends know about my sunflower story and add sunflower emojis to texts or send me photos when they see one too) you will know the significance.<br />
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#TodaysSunflower. Miss you too. Love, me<br />
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Patti Hodderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16468686672215414798noreply@blogger.com0New Hyde Park, NY, USA40.7351018 -73.68790819999998140.7110373 -73.72824869999998 40.759166300000004 -73.647567699999982tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329659109948027287.post-66270300825571286012018-07-19T19:08:00.001-04:002018-07-19T19:08:23.050-04:00The Summer Of Jaws 1975.....my girlfriend and I went to see JAWS. It forever changed my summers. 1975 in particular but it's something that I do think about off and on when I'm out swimming in the ocean. Just yesterday, this same friend and I went to our beautiful Long Island beach to enjoy a day off. At one point, there were several helicopters flying low and slow. Now, in our neck of the woods that could mean a lot of things. Rich folk flying from NYC to their Hampton hideaway, bad traffic issues or missing boaters or swimmers.<br />
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My girlfriend said that, according to her husband, that is how they look for sharks. I honestly didn't think much about it until I saw the news when we got home.<br />
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<a href="https://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/local/Shark-Attack-New-York-Long-Island-Robert-Moses-Fire-Island-State-Park-488513691.html">Shark attacks two children at Long Island beach</a><br />
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OMFG....everyone was ok, but definitely bitten by a shark. And the news just kept replaying this one tasty (bad pun) tidbit: "And a tooth was found in the boy's leg". Again OMFG. We were not at the same beach, but at the same ocean for goodness sakes. I didn't go in past my waist, but neither did one of the victims.<br />
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Suddenly, without warning, the voices in my head dulled and a very striking piece of music started playing in my head and it brought me way back to the summer of '75. <br />
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Thank you Steven Spielberg for creating what will probably go down in history as one of the best films ever....but you totally f-ed up my summer.<br />
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As I said, my girlfriend and I went to see the film right after opening in June of 75. I believe there are still marks on my arm from her fingernails. Now granted movie special effects have really changed the game since then. However, for that time, this movie was so terrifying. And if you've seen it at some point in your life, I'm sorry....you never forget the girl swimming in the opening.<br />
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My grandmother saw the film and remarked, "well you shouldn't be drinking and swimming alone at night." I guess there was some sort of morality lesson I missed? That sharks went after 'bad' girls?<br />
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During this summer I was lifeguarding and teaching swimming at a school's summer program INDOOR pool. Indoor mind you but every day I would have a handful of children saying "No, Miss Patti, I'm not going in the pool today. There could be sharks." Or "I am NOT going in the deep end, what is that on the bottom?" It is just a filter I would try to explain. These kids needed to get into the pool....honestly I found it the easiest way to learn how to SWIM! <br />
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The only way I could convince them is if I got in the water with them. I swear, every kid, for two months, looked like this.<br />
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So I would have some kids sitting on the edge while I escorted some of them into the pool. These poor babies would be shrieking and clinging onto my neck that I think I still have scars. And I kept thinking these are like 7 year olds, who the hell is taking them to see that movie? This is what their poor little scared minds saw.<br />
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More lifeguarding life later....but what an awesome job. I spent 6 days a week waterclogged but loved every minute of it, and my kids were always so precious to me. <br />
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By the end of the summer my kids all passed their swimming tests but I was exhausted! My Dad also worked for the school system so we always took our family vacations in August. That year we were heading down to the west coast of Florida.<br />
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I always loved the ocean....body surfing, diving under the waves before they broke on your head. And in my tiny mind, I thought that bad sharks are up only in Northeast waters. Idiot.<br />
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Anyway, my little brother and Mom were either at the pool or in the room and I begged my Dad to take me to the ocean. I was a very good and strong swimmer but you just didn't go out alone. And the lifeguards had left for the day.<br />
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Dad, being a good sport, accompanied me down to the water. I immediately dove into the warm water (Northeast ocean water is freezing) and started bobbing in the waves, swimming pretty far out and having a blast.<br />
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The next part of the story comes from my Mom's recollections. "Your father was standing at the end of the water watching you when he realized there was not one other person in the water or even near the water. He asked a man fishing, 'hey where is everyone?' The guy replied 'oh there was a shark sighting earlier.' It didn't sink in immediately with your father. He asked the guy 'oh really, where'? The fisherman crinkled up his nose, put his hand above his eyes to block out the sun and pointed. 'See where that redhead girl is swimming? Yeah right around there."<br />
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Back to the story from my vantage point. I have really bad eyesight. And out playing in the waves, my hearing is not too good either. I happen to look up and see my father doing some sort of crazy man dance. My immediate thought is 'oh my God how embarassing what is doing'? I finally realized, after what seemed like an eternity to my Dad, that he was telling me I had to come in. He used the excuse that we needed to get ready for dinner or something. I asked 'can I go back in tomorrow'? "We'll see", he said, "but the pool looks really nice".<br />
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So yes, the power of the movies....and why that movie will stay with me forever. <br />
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<br />Patti Hodderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16468686672215414798noreply@blogger.com0New Hyde Park, NY, USA40.7351018 -73.68790819999998140.7110373 -73.72824869999998 40.759166300000004 -73.647567699999982tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329659109948027287.post-51970435953302969912018-07-17T16:36:00.000-04:002018-07-17T16:36:06.856-04:00Fan Girling <br />
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I was a little too young for Beatlemania, but I do have a memory of my parents watching the Ed Sullivan show and coverage of the concert at Shea Stadium. I remember thinking why are all these girls so upset and screaming.<br />
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"They are fans", my Mom explained, "they are just so happy to see their favorite band." Crying, fainting, looking crazy? I sure do get it now.....a short history of my Fan Girling.<br />
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The initial blame must go to Tiger Beat Magazine. I was obsessed with The Monkees. With Micky Dolenz in particular. I was entranced with reading about "what is Micky's fave type of girl"? "What does Micky eat for breakfast?"<br />
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He was taped all over my walls and when he let his hair go naturally curly I just about lost my shit. Immediately I started staring at my hair follicles, willing them to go curly. One day my Mom and I were locked out of the house. Since I was still little she said I'll open the basement window and slide you down and you can unlock us. Oh hell no. "I'll buy you the new Monkees album if you do." I shot through that window like my pants were on fire.<br />
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The next day my Mom kept her promise and I scored the newest album.<br />
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Albums were a big deal. It wasn't like we had a ton of money so we would save up our birthday money and go to Masters in the local strip mall. Downstairs they had all the current top 40 singles up on a wall and you would pick that number and get your precious single. You had to have a special thingy to convert the 45 to play on your turntable. Obviously I was a little hyper organized even then. I recently found my hot pink 45s carrier and my carefully labeled list.<br />
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At a town festival recently, a local band was playing and I started walking toward the sound (kind of like walking to the light but in an audio, not death is coming way). My husband said "you are like a moth to a flame when you hear live music".<br />
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Ah, live music.........nothing like it. And I have been so fortunate to have seen some great bands and to have met some musicians that have always inspired me. <br />
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My first concert was Sonny & Cher at the Nassau Coliseum. <br />
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I have no shame....I remember them as being awesome. The hair, the clothes. Cher was my first fan girl crush. I was a little dismayed to learn I would never look anything like her. I wanted crooked teeth, ultra straight black hair and legs for days. <br />
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During my teenage years I remember most vividly Fleetwood Mac in the mid 1970s. Talk about a fan girl crush. I went from Gypsys, Tramps & Thieves to Rhiannon very quickly. <br />
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The band and music were so memorable but a couple of teenage activities are what I most remember. First of all....they even checked bags back in the day. My first friend went in smuggling cigarettes. My second friend went in lugging some vodka. Another friend had wine in a bag. I was the last to enter and I got stopped. I had a gallon of orange juice in my bag.<br />
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The security guard looked at me and said you need to get rid of that. My friends had scattered to the winds leaving me literally holding the bag. "I have a cold" was my explanation. Needless to say no mixer for the vodka. We should have known better. All I wanted to hear was "Landslide". Unfortunately the vodka kicked in when my girlfriend and I were in the bathroom. I remember running through the hallways in my designer jeans, high heeled clogs, full of vodka shouting "no!!!" Like Stevie was going to hear me and let me get back to my seat.<br />
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Fast forward....London...1979/1980. During my first six months I had an internship with the New Musical Express (kind of like a UK Rolling Stone). I still can't believe it but I went to some shows, met the bands...most before they hit it big in the US. The Brits called it New Wave...I call it the most incredible time. My fave haunt was The Marquee Club on Wardour Street.<br />
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Some of the bands I saw were The Jam, The Specials, Squeeze and The Police.<br />
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I loved the Jam and all of Paul Weller's incarnations.....saw him a few years ago in NYC. But the young Paul Weller was something special and he is now considered one of the guitar Gods. "Going Underground" was one of their big hits at that time. I thought he was the coolest thing I had ever seen in my young life. <br />
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I was obsessed with The Who's Quadrophrenia and traveled alone to Brighton, England where the movie was filmed. It was a blast visiting some of the places portrayed in the film. No Mod riots or Sting as a Bellboy, but what a fun excursion.<br />
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And Mr. Billy Idol. Pre White Wedding and Rebel Yell. Oh my we were all so young.......<br />
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And for a bit...green hair & safety pins. Sorry Mom.<br />
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Again, due to life getting busy with adulting my concert going days were not as frequent. I did see the Rolling Stones at Shea Stadium on my last day of being 29. That place was shaking.<br />
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I won tickets through I Heart Radio to see a band called Neon Trees about 8 years ago. They were just starting to get popular and my friend and I were right up front getting sweated on by the lead singer and it brought back my London days. And I'm a sucker for a black Mohawk! <br />
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Through work I was able to go to Las Vegas to work tradeshows. Most times the tradeshow organizers had an opening concert and we saw some great acts. One was Rod Stewart. In true fan girl fashion, I wore my vintage Rod Stewart t shirt as a friend of a friend of a friend was able to get me backstage. Rod signed my shirt and was very respectful of where he wrote. And his hair is amazing in person! Truly a nice man.<br />
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Another friend of a friend had a friend called Ryan Star. I knew of him through the reality show Rock Star Supernova where singers competed to be the new lead singer of Tommy Lee's new band. Ryan was also a born and raised Long Island boy. I was able to connect with him, give him so goodies from the company I worked for and a friend and I saw him at Webster Hall.<br />
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I then got the ultimate fan girl email: "Hey Patti, Ryan is opening for Bon Jovi in Vegas. Want tickets and a backstage pass?" F of course. That whole day of the concert I was a wreck. I went with my Vegas sister Gina (who's last name is Bongiovi....like third cousin or something). In the middle of the dinner, I got the call.....come backstage now! Gina, who is the best wing woman, and I threw the rest of the pasta down our throats, threw too much money at the waiter and ran off. Now, if you know anything about the MGM Grand in Vegas, the 'grand' is no exaggeration. But we made it and how much fun was it for Gina to show Ryan her drivers license to validate her genuine "Bon Jovi- Ness". No Bon Jovi sighting....but it was the pinnacle of my fan girling to just be around the area where Jon Bon Jovi might be!<br />
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Ryan then performed at a local country club for Autism research and I have to admit....to have the guest of honor come sit with you, take pictures with you and chat.....the other Long Island ladies were a little jealous.....ok a lot jealous.<br />
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My most recent fan girling has lasted the longest. Ten years ago, again in Vegas for work, a couple of girlfriends and I were leaving dinner, a few bottles of wine in, and passed by a lounge at The Venetian Hotel. For a minute we thought "oh my God, is that Bon Jovi singing?" We stumbled to a corner table and I realized that the lead singer was wearing shoes that my company manufactured.<br />
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Being a loud mouth New Yorker, during a break, I yelled at the singer "hey are you wearing Kenneth Cole shoes?" "Why yes I am...and my sunglasses are Kenneth Cole and my bag is Kenneth Cole and my jacket is Kenneth Cole."<br />
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"Get out of here I work for him, let me see if I can get you some shoes!!"<br />
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Now according to the version told by my friend Peter, he thought "oh yeah, sure. I've heard that before". In my head I thought "he doesn't believe me so I'll show him." The next night, I go back to the lounge with two shopping bags filled with shoes. He went home and said to his wife, "that girl actually came back with shoes." Well, I told you I would!<br />
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We've been friends ever since and I now have the ultimate fan girl real life job. I work on all his marketing and social media efforts and I've never had so much fun working before. And gained an amazing friend in the process. <br />
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<br />Patti Hodderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16468686672215414798noreply@blogger.com3New Hyde Park, NY, USA40.7351018 -73.68790819999998140.7110373 -73.72824869999998 40.759166300000004 -73.647567699999982tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329659109948027287.post-59226392535434307602018-07-13T19:44:00.000-04:002018-07-13T19:44:28.986-04:00London Calling Part 1 Let's get this out of the way because I know you all started singing:<br />
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If you are like me, goals and dreams tend to have their genesis from many sources. Friends, Teachers, Books, Family, Movies and the like. During high school, when thoughts of college started to germinate my three requirements were: 1. Live Away (but not too far). 2. Coed (I went to an all girls high school for goodness sakes so duh on that one). 3. The school needed to have a study abroad program. I honestly have no idea how this got into my head. Certainly it wasn't a priority on the Guidance Counselor's list. And most certainly not my parents. Their reaction was "oh sure, great idea".<br />
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I started going to college fairs and recruitment meetings and if a school did not meet these requirements they were scratched off the list. My parents urged me to broaden my search but I was fixated. I needed to study abroad. And London specifically. <br />
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Bear in mind at that point in time I had NEVER been anywhere alone. I didn't go to summer camp, I didn't attend some boarding school in Switzerland. If I traveled into the city it was always with a parent or friends with THEIR parent. My parents basically said I would be running away. <br />
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The college fair circuit continued....SATs were taken (it was like I didn't show up for the math one, but for English I scored close to perfect).<br />
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Applying to colleges was way easier back in the day. I see now what juniors go through and I don't think I could do it again. My extracurricular activities (sneaking into bars didn't count) were bowling and Captain of the Kick Team (kind of like the generic Disney characters on the Vegas streets, Rockettes style). My grades were fine and I managed to get into each college I applied to. Like I said much easier back then. Only 1 had everything I wanted -- Marist College in Poughkeepsie, NY.<br />
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More on college life later. This was an amazing school but back in the day was not as well known as it is today. When my parents said I was going to school in Poughkeepsie everyone thought "wow, she's going to Vassar!?!?!?". "She's going to West Point?" "She's going to The Culinary Institute?" No, the OTHER college in Poughkeepsie. Going to Marist is one of the best decisions I made....perfect for me and my "I don't know where this came from" idea of going to London.<br />
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Fast forward to the summer following my sophomore year.<div>
<br /> Much to my parents' concern, I'm packing to study in London. Based on my understanding of abroad programs in modern times, they last one semester and kids go over as a group. I was leaving on my own for the entire school year. It's hard to imagine but no cell phones, no SKYPE, no email....for goodness sakes my luggage didn't even have wheels in those days. And talk about matchy-matchy. So demure.<br />
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And no debit or credit cards. Just American Express Traveler's checks (Google them kids).<br />
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I left JFK and everything I knew behind and took off for London's Heathrow Airport.<br />
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Once I landed, at 9pm, I needed to navigate my way to a bus that was taking me to the neighborhood where I would be living temporarily. I knew I would be in for an adventure when I asked the first person I saw "where is the bus to Islington. I need to get to the Angel Station subway stop?"<br />
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"Love, the queue is off to the right. See where that bloke is with the fag and torch? Take the M50 gets you right to the tube" Translation: the line for the bus is off to the right where the guy with the cigarette and flashlight is standing and the M50 bus will take you to the subway station. I immediately stepped off the curb, looked left only to be nearly run over by the car coming up on the right. "What do you mean they drive on the other side of the road?" I asked the nice kid that yanked me out of danger. I had a lot to learn.<br />
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What is shocking to me now is that the program DID NOT PROVIDE HOUSING. I would be set up in a CONVENT then needed to find my own place in the world. Yep, I had to find an apartment, pay rent. Rent? I had no clue. The convent, full on convent with nuns in habits, had a curfew and communal bathrooms and dining halls. <br />
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I showed up, met my roommate Patrice and buckled down for a year to be remembered. And so much more that I couldn't even have dreamt of. Living in flats, hanging with Punks, seeing bands in their infancy, falling in love, green hair and safety pins. <br />
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More London calling in a future post!<br />
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Patti Hodderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16468686672215414798noreply@blogger.com0New Hyde Park, NY, USA40.7351018 -73.68790819999998140.7110373 -73.72824869999998 40.759166300000004 -73.647567699999982tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329659109948027287.post-27896647286919766022018-07-09T16:10:00.001-04:002018-07-09T16:10:48.484-04:00Thank you Mom & Mrs. Wu As I was working on a custom art piece, the client said "how did you learn how to do this stuff"? I have never taken an art class (I went to Catholic school so I'm well versed in Latin, typing and shorthand -- so useful). It got me to thinking and reminiscing.<br />
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When I was young, my Mother made all my clothes and most of hers. One of our mutual favorites was the flower girl dress she made for me when I was in my Aunt's wedding. But I also remember complaining ALOT.....I just wanted to go to The Gap and I hassled my Mother. "But the crotch is too low and itchy." "The cool girls aren't wearing this." I guess a typical pre-tween delight.<br />
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But when I think back, I remember just the two of us going to the local Singer sewing/fabric store. I was fascinated by the rows of color -- still gets me today. <br />
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My Mom would then sit at a desk with a huge book of patterns and write down the numbers she wanted. My job was to take those numbers to the huge drawers and pick the patterns out.<br />
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I don't recall ever thanking her. For giving me a love of color and for creating. The pants were definitely itchy but nothing as uncomfortable as those Sergio Valente "designer" jeans and Dr. Scholls (which killed if your foot went over that edge) that I evolved to.<br />
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So thank you Mom for giving me an appreciation of handmade, especially when done with love.<br />
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I was lucky to grow up on a block filled with amazing families. All the kids played for hours: coloring, Barbies, SPUD, WAR, Red Light Green Light and riding bikes. <br />
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All our Mothers got together for a weekly card game. They would switch off houses and I remember lots of jello molds, cocktails and smoking. Seemed so glamorous. So many of my childhood friend's Moms have passed away so this visual memory is always bittersweet.<br />
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One of the Moms was Mrs. Wu. Mrs Wu, her husband and two sons were my first experience of a diverse world. She always wore her hair in a messy bun before it was "a thing". She baked almond cookies, had beautiful Asian art and fabric in her home. <br />
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I remember going to her younger son's baptism in Chinatown in NYC. The traditional clothing, the unusual food was something I will never forget. The full pig on the main table however I choose to gloss over.<br />
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Mrs. Wu was also crafty. I'm not sure how it started, but all the kids would assemble at her home and she would teach us a different craft each time. As an adult I can't even imagine the patience this required. And I'm sure we were messy.<br />
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One project was cutting out a pattern and sewing a simple A line skirt. With an elastic waist. Not the most flattering but I remember being so excited that I made something myself. My hem was not exactly straight....it was a "high/low" skirt before they also became a thing.<br />
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We also made wire rings and bracelets. The local candy store, Bambis...had rows of beads in tubes and I remember saving up my allowance and we would pick out the colors.<br />
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Sand art....well not everything can be perfectly done.<br />
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Just as I finished my project, I happened to knock my bottle off the table and all my effort became a technicolor beach all over her back porch. And what Mrs. Wu said that day left my memory while I was busy going to college, getting married, having a crazy career and raising my son: "Not to worry...this just gives you a chance to create something new and even more remarkable". I wish I had remembered her wisdom at other points in my life. Everything became SO serious with this adulting thing.<br />
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I still have the original embroidery pieces I created under her tutelage. While purging my studio, I found them in a long forgotten box. They now hang on the wall.<br />
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So thank you Mrs. Wu....for sparking a creative gene that is in full bloom now. And for planting the thought that nothing is a mistake....just a chance to do something differently and become even more remarkable. I was lucky to have known you.<br />
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<br />Patti Hodderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16468686672215414798noreply@blogger.com0New Hyde Park, NY, USA40.7351018 -73.68790819999998140.7110373 -73.72824869999998 40.759166300000004 -73.647567699999982tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329659109948027287.post-4372379825540287272018-06-29T13:01:00.000-04:002018-06-29T13:01:50.763-04:00Swimming As A Contact Sport<div style="text-align: center;">
<b><i>It was the summer of '69 (apologies to Bryan Adams).</i></b></div>
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As a kid, we were so fortunate to belong to the town pool. My family and friends spent hours there all throughout the summer. It was where I learned to swim and where I developed my 1st lifeguard crush.<br />
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<li><b><span style="color: red;">NO SUNTAN LOTION</span></b>: Sunscreen was NOT allowed. I think of this craziness every time my dermatologist burns something off my skin. Allegedly it clogged the filters. This was all supervised by an empowered 19 year old who walked around in white Bermuda shorts, swinging a whistle and confiscating bottles of Coppertone and Hawaiian Tropic. BTW...at this time there was not one drop of shade to be found.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<li><span style="color: red;"><b>NO SHOES ON THE POOL DECK</b></span>: OK I get not running around in your Keds, but no flip flops even (or Zories as we used the call them). The surface was nothing but concrete, again <b><span style="color: red;">NO</span></b> shade, so you would walk/run to find a lounge. And of course with the no running rule, you were forced to chose between burning the bottoms of your feet or risking the blast of the lifeguard's over aggressive whistle blowing.<b><span style="color: red;"> NO RUNNING!</span></b></li>
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while us girls were relegated to this discreet and oh so pretty type of bathing cap.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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using hidden bottles of baby oil and spraying Sun In on their golden locks. All while wearing awesome bikinis. I'm not sure if any of them actually went into the water -- the uncoolness of the bathing cap situation was too much to endure. Literally no one under 15 or over 18 would think of sitting here. </li>
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Bearing all these rules in mind, it was still an amazing way for us to spend our childhood summers. But on a wonderfully hot & sunny July 4th in the summer of '69, no rules were broken but it still ended badly for me and hundreds of other hot pool goers.</div>
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I was enjoying the deeper end of the pool with my Mom. She was standing in the pool watching me jump in over and over. "Watch Mommy, now I'm gonna cannonball. Now I'm gonna jump in holding my arms up over my head like a rocket".</div>
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"And now, I'm gonna jump in backwards, watch!"</div>
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I cringe as I type this. In hindsight I jumped up but not OUT. A serious miscalculation. My chin made contact with the cement of the pool edge. Note to self: in a chin vs cement showdown, the cement will ALWAYS win.</div>
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With my face on the cement, and my legs dangling in the pool, the lifeguard jumped in to save me. OK for a second that was awesome but quickly turned into a mess while he carried me to the nurse's office.</div>
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With just one look, the nurse said "yeah you need to go to LIJ", our local hospital. My Mom went back to the lounge to make sure my little brother had someone to watch him. As she was returning to the nurse's office, the intercom blasted "ladies & gentlemen please exit the pool. It will be closed for an undetermined amount of time". Turns out blood in a pool is not acceptable from a public health perspective.</div>
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A few hours later we returned to the scene, with 25 brand spanking new stitches. The pool water was....much to my horror...empty. But no one had left. Walking to get my brother, I was pointed at, whispered at, scowled at like Hester Prynne in <u style="font-weight: bold;">The Scarlet Letter.</u> </div>
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So if I ever yelled at your kids when they attempted to jump backwards in a pool, please forgive me. Ironically, I ended up being a lifeguard for many years and was known as "that girl that won't let us have any fun". My son endured this for years as he also grew up at this pool.</div>
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I hope you now understand why you never see me jumping into a pool backwards. I don't even like walking backwards and have been known to lose any coordination when I even turn around to back up my car. (Rear view camera = game changer).</div>
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Patti Hodderhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16468686672215414798noreply@blogger.com0PattiStudio LLC New Hyde Park, NY, USA40.7351018 -73.68790819999998140.7110373 -73.72824869999998 40.759166300000004 -73.647567699999982tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329659109948027287.post-28442210894825351272018-06-24T17:01:00.000-04:002018-06-24T18:39:07.677-04:00Perilously Close To Crazy Intro <b> Perilously Close To Crazy</b> ... or my life's adventures after surviving a childhood of lead paint, Pop Rocks and BB guns.<br />
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"You should write a book." I have heard this so many times and I was never quite sure if it meant:<br />
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Don't get me wrong....I've been blessed. But life can be messy, whether through fate, luck, destiny. And so many misadventures have been caused by my own questionable choices.</div>
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I recently knew I was on to something when at a recent brunch in my home away from home (Vegas, baby) a girlfriend said "Oh My God. You need to tell the boat story". Perhaps I'm a ham, or inspired by bottomless mimosas, I told "THE BOAT STORY". With props no less. And to watch slightly tipsy brunchers laughing so hard made my day. Ego? Probably. Joyful? Absolutely. </div>
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I want to be a storyteller. Through my art, my actions, my words I try to inspire. Sure I've had some hard knocks but I've also had really fun things happen too. I hope that by sharing some of my stories....none of which will change the world....perhaps will bring a smile. And some may make you cry. That is what I want my legacy to be...shit she made me LAUGH or I can't believe that happened!</div>
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She was one tough chick. </div>
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Stay tuned!!<br />
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